In these difficult months, we have been reminded once again how precious every Jewish life is. We’ve seen soldiers going into danger to rescue hostages, families davening with tears for their loved ones, and a whole nation standing together — because in Am Yisrael, every single neshamah matters. We don’t count Jews as numbers. Each person is a world.

This idea comes straight from this week’s parsha, Lech Lecha. Hashem promises Avraham that his descendants will be many, but He uses two very different examples.

First, Hashem says they will be “like the dust of the earth” — וְשַׂמְתִּי אֶת־זַרְעֲךָ כַּעֲפַר הָאָרֶץ (Bereishis 13:16) — and later, “like the stars of the heavens” — הַבֶּט־נָא הַשָּׁמַיְמָה וּסְפֹר הַכּוֹכָבִים כֹּה יִהְיֶה זַרְעֶךָ (15:5).

Why both?

The Midrash (brought in Torah Sheleima, Bereishis 15:55) teaches that when we live according to Hashem’s will, we rise above the world, shining like the stars in the heavens. But when we turn away, we become like the dust of the earth, stepped on and scattered.

There’s another way to understand this that comes from Avraham’s own life. Until now, Avraham’s mission was about spreading emunah — belief in Hashem — to the world. He spoke to crowds, taught many followers, and built a movement of faith. But then came a test of a different kind.

His nephew Lot had chosen to separate from him. The Torah tells us: וַיִּפְרְדוּ אִישׁ מֵעַל אָחִיו — “They parted, one man from the other” (Bereishis 13:11).

Lot chose to live in Sedom, a place known for its cruelty and immorality. He looked toward the Jordan Valley, drawn by its beauty, for the Torah says: כִּי כֻלָּהּ מַשְׁקֶה כְּגַן ה’ — “it was well watered, like the garden of Hashem” (13:10).

Lot was drawn by wealth and comfort. In a sense, he chose his own path — a life focused on material success instead of spiritual purpose.

When Avraham later hears that Lot has been taken captive — וַיִּשְׁמַע אַבְרָם כִּי נִשְׁבָּה אָחִיו (14:14) — he could have said, “Lot made his choice; this is the consequence.” He might have thought, “It’s his own fault.” But Avraham doesn’t think that way. He doesn’t turn away. He immediately gathers his men, enters the battlefield, and risks his life to save him.

The Abarbanel points out something beautiful here. When the Torah first describes Lot’s capture, it calls him: בֶּן־אֲחִי אַבְרָם — “the son of Avram’s brother” (14:12). But when Avraham decides to rescue him, the Torah calls Lot: אָחִיו — “his brother” (14:14).

The Abarbanel explains that the moment Avraham resolved to save him, the relationship changed. Lot was no longer just a nephew — he became like a brother.

This teaches us something very real. We often speak of Acheinu Bnei Yisrael — our brothers and sisters in Eretz Yisrael. But when we truly dedicate ourselves to helping them, when we care for them and stand up for them, that description becomes more than words. It becomes truth. We are brothers and sisters.

Only after this story does Hashem tell Avraham that his children will be “like the stars of the heavens.” Dust may be many, but all grains look the same. Stars too are countless, but each one shines with its own light. Hashem was teaching Avraham a timeless truth:

“Because you recognized the value in a single soul and treated each life as precious, your descendants will be like the stars of the heavens — each unique, each shining, and each watched over by Hashem.”

That’s the way of Avraham Avinu — and it’s alive in our people today. When soldiers go into danger to save one hostage, when Jews all over the world daven and do mitzvos for someone they’ve never met, when a nation refuses to give up on even one neshamah — that’s Avraham’s spirit within us.

There’s a story about a man walking along the beach after a storm, throwing starfish back into the sea. Someone says, “There are thousands of them! You can’t save them all.” The man picks up another, tosses it into the waves, and says, “I made a difference to that one.”

That’s what it means to be children of Avraham. We don’t give up on anyone. We don’t forget even one Jew — whether they’re missing physically, or whether they’ve drifted away spiritually.

So what do we do now?

We keep caring. We keep davening. We keep reaching out — to those in danger, to those in pain, and to those who have simply lost their way. Each act of ahavas Yisrael brings another star back into the light.

Every star in the heavens matters — and so does every Jew on earth.

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Parshat Lech Lecha, “Top Five”: Bringing People to God, and to Prayer

I started this year thinking I would find the five best comments I had shared in our time studying parsha together. Not going to happen—as I look back, way more than five bear revisiting. I’ll pick five that appeal to me in this moment, for whatever reason. This week, it’s because they focused on related issues.

Religion as a Relationship with God

When Avram and Sarai leave Charan for they know not where, 12;5, they take the souls asher asu, that they made, in Charan. Rashi offers two ideas, first, it means the people they had “brought under the wings of the Divine Presence,” similar to what Onkelos has [I’m cheating, not counting this as citing Onkelos, because I’m only doing five], although Onkelos phrased it that they brought them to subservience to Torah.

The imagery of Hashem with spread wings reminds us proper faith helps us shelter from the storms of life. We can get caught up in religion as a system, practices, or culture, for good reasons and bad. Avram and Sarai focused on the fundamental goal of religious activity—taking ourselves back to the protective Presence of our waiting Creator, the only true source of safety, and of guidance as to how to live our best lives.

Separating Men and Women

It’s a rich Rashi; the second idea in this first reading says Avram would convert the men, Sarai the women. He doesn’t feel the need to explain why they taught by gender, but it seems to me to be because of the complications of cross-gender mentoring. Especially in something as sensitive as remaking a worldview, letting other factors, like gender relations, into the picture would be a problem.

Best to take sexuality out of the equation.

Many take this as code for keeping women inferior, but Rashi doesn’t say Avram converted the important people and Sarai the women. If the Queen of England wanted to convert, Rashi thinks Sarai would have guided it. On the other hand, Avram handled any man’s conversion, even the most socially insignificant one.

Avram and Sarai’s model reminds us how easily sexuality can intrude (as does their encounter with the Egyptians in this parsha), and the necessity of doing that which we can to avoid or minimize it. In some situations, that means separating by gender.

Building a World

Although Onkelos gave the reading of bringing them to Torah, Rashi insists the simple meaning is the servants they had acquired. In a slave society, people acquire people, the more literal reading of the verse, they took with them all the slaves they had purchased.

Even here, though Rashi does not say it, it certainly seems like Avram brought Eliezer closer to God, for example. Acquiring souls, Avram and Sarai built relationships of mutual trust, surrounded themselves with people rather than objects, fostered human connection rather than material pleasure.

Calling Out in Gd’s Name

About a chapter later, 13;4, Avram returns to Beit El from Egypt, to the altar he had built, va-yikra sham be-shem Hashem, called out there in the Name of Gd. Rambam, Hilkhot Avodah Zarah 1;3, says he called out to other people in the Name of God, continued his “kiruv” efforts, his search to bring people to recognize Hashem.

Onkelos instead translates va-yikra as ve-tzalei, he prayed. In his view, Avraham makes it back from Egypt, returns to where he had been, to the altar he had built, and prays to Gd. We’ll see more prayer, so it was an Onkelos worth noting.

Hagar Prayed to God, Not Named Him

After a pregnant Hagar flees the treatment of Sarah, chapter sixteen, an angel tells her to go back, bear her sufferings, and she will have a son. When the encounter ends, verse thirteen, we are told Hagar called the Name of the God Who had spoken to her E-l Roi [AlHaTorah.org has Ibn Ezra’s translation, “the God of Seeing”].

Sforno rereads the verse almost completely. He thinks “calling the Name of God” always means prayer, which starts with praise, followed by requests, an order taught in Berachot 32a. It helps the supplicant focus attention, Sforno says, after which s/he will be ready to lodge his/her hopes.

Here, Hagar speaks of E-l Ro’I for exactly that kind of praise, You are the God Who sees all, not just in Avraham’s household. Her awareness of God’s attention to her, as it were, reminds Sforno of Bava Metzi’a 59a, all gates are shut other than for those who cry out because of mistreatment.

For Sforno, I think, the angel’s promise did not assuage her fears, it stimulated her to prayer [a weakness of his reading is that the verse does not tell us anything she requested. I suggest Sforno thought it was clear she asked for good health for the baby, or something along those lines.]

Stick with Problems or Let Them Go

In 13:14, the Torah times Hashem’s speaking with Avram to after Lot separated. Meshech Hochmah notes two views in Bereshit Rabbah 41;8. The first, R. Nehemiah, says what Rashi did, Avram’s association with the wicked Lot hindered Gd’s willingness to speak to him. Gd disliked (was angry about) Avram’s association with Lot, returned to speaking with him after Lot left.

The other view, R. Yuda, said the opposite, Gd was angry Avram let Lot leave. He built relationships with a panoply of people, brought them closer to Gd, yet could not with his own cousin/nephew?!

Meshech Chochmah linked these views and the next Midrash, where two other amoraim tussle over the meaning of acharei, after. One held it meant right after, matching the earlier idea that Gd disapproved of the relationship, appeared as soon as that barrier was cleared away.

The other said acharei meant long after (muflag, distant), possibly because Gd thought Avram failed to keep Lot close, and therefore refrained from speaking with him for some time, a sort of rebuke.

It draws our attention to a lasting disagreement in Jewish thought about how to handle people who have chosen bad paths, especially relatives. In his reading, one view thinks Avram should have kept Lot close even after he insisted on grazing his flocks where they did not belong, should have worked the same magic with Lot he did with pagans.

The other side seems to think Avram was correct to cut his losses, and Gd was waiting for him to realize it.

Likely, the answer lies in each case, making the Midrash a dispute about the course of action more correct for Avram and Lot. For the rest of us, it might be both: sometimes we are to keep wrongdoers close, in the hopes to help them grow to be better, other times we have to separate.

Not an easy calculation or choice, and according to some of these rabbis, a place where Avram himself might have mis-stepped.

Rewarding Good Thoughts

Hashem phrases the promise of protection to Avraham, early in our parsha, “va-avarecha mevarechecha, u-mekallelcha a’or. I will bless those who bless you, those who curse you, I will curse.” Kli Yakar points out the switch of order, Hashem promises to bless those who bless Avram, putting God’s act first, second in the cursing.

His first, longer, explanation, assumes meverachecha means those who think to bless you, where mekallelcha are those who already cursed. An example of the principle that God rewards thoughts of good as if already performed, punishes only wrongs committed.

He then seemingly digresses to a discussion of prayer, except it shows a fuller meaning of his comment. He starts with why God requires us to verbalize prayers, if God knows our thoughts.

Turning to Prayer

For an answer, he points to Yevamot 64a, God made the Matriarchs infertile out of “desire” for the prayers of the righteous. Kli Yakar sees a parental element, a father enjoys hearing from his child, wants the child to ask for what the father would give anyway, to extend the conversation, Hashem “wants” to hear from us.

In contrast to powerful people he knows, who interrupt petitioners as soon as they understand the request. God gives us as much time as we want, prefers longer prayers, because they require advance thought, and Hashem promises to reward the thought, too.

[He seems to be talking to his time rather than the verse. Grant his first claim, Hashem was telling Avram those who think to bless him would be blessed, its relevance to prayer is tenuous at best. It seems to me he wanted to encourage his listener/readers to pray better and longer, and saw a way to connect it.]

That’s five. See you next week.

The other comments we saw over the years:
R. David Zvi Hoffmann, Bereshit, Introduction to Lech Lecha
Ramban, Bereshit 12;1
Meshech Hochmah, Bereshit 12;4, Va-yelech ito Lot,
Onkelos, Bershit 12;5
Ramban, Bereshit, 12;6
Vilna Ga’on, Bereshit 12;8
Rashi, Bereshit 12;10, Ra’av ba-aretz
Ramban, Bereshit, 12;11
Onkelos, Bereshit 13;9, Im ha-semol
Rashi, Bereshit 13;10, whole verse
Rashi, Bereshit 13;13, whole verse
Chatam Sofer, Bereshit 13;17, Kum hithalech
Ha’amek Davar, Bereshit 14;7-13
Rashi, Bereshit 14;13, Va-Yavo ha-palit
Malbim, Bereshit 14;14, Va-Yishma Avram
Meshech Chochmah, Bereshit 15;1, Al tira
R. Samson Raphael Hirsch,Bereshit15;2, Hashem Elokim
Onkelos, Bereshit 15;4, Asher yetzei
Onkelos, Bereshit 15;13-4, Va-avadum
Or HaChayim, Bereshit 15;14, Ve-gam et ha-goy
Rashi, Bereshit 15;15, whole verse
Meshech Hochmah, Bereshit 15;16, Ve-dor revi’i
Rashi, Bereshit 16;3, Miketze ser shanim
Onkelos, Bereshit 16;5, Be-cheikecha
Onkelos, Bereshit 16;12, Yado ba-kol
HaKetav Ve-Ha-Kabbalah, Bereshit 16;14, Be-er Lachai Ro’i
Ibn Ezra, Bereshit, 17; 14, Ve-arel zachar

Question: I, an elderly kohen with weak legs and poor balance, walk with a cane. I walk up to duchen with a cane, stand near a wall, and lean during Birkat Kohanim (=BK). Is that valid? Can you suggest a good plan of action?

Answer: Asking your question takes bravery, as we understand that the prospect of not being able to duchen would be a great disappointment.

We will start with the strict requirements. BK must be done standing (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 128:14). The gemara (Sota 38a) learns this from the Torah’s connecting of the kohen’s beracha to his service in the Mikdash, which must be done standing. Because standing is a full requirement, if one leans on something during BK, it is invalid (Mishna Berura 128:51). However, one may lean a little, as long as removing the thing he is leaning on would not make him fall (see Zevachim 24a; Mishna Berura 94:22). It is also absolutely required for kohanim to lift their hands in the subscribed manner for BK (Shulchan Aruch ibid.; Sota 38a). This makes balance more difficult. You thus must figure out if you can use the wall for balance/security and “pass this test.”

Realize that there are legitimate corners to cut to help you qualify. The Mishna Berura (128:52) accepts the Ktav Sofer’s (OC 13) idea that the kohen needs to lift his hands only when he pronounces each individual word; he can rest in between. The same thing should be true regarding standing – one may lean as he likes in between pronouncing the words (Even Yisrael VII:10; Dirshu 128:70).

Let us rule out another question. A kohen may not duchen with blemishes on visible parts of the body because they distract the congregation’s attention (Shulchan Aruch ibid. 30). Arguably, people could view your cane as distracting. However, this is not a problem. First, this is a questionable assumption. Second, if people are used to a distraction, e.g., the situation has existed for 30 days, it is no longer distracting (ibid.). Furthermore, since the cane is not in your hand during BK, it is not a halachic issue.

We did not find discussion on the presumably most physically difficult part of the process – turning around during the beracha, which kohanim do with the hands already up. We will share two good solutions for this challenge, after discussing the practice of turning around. The most important parts of davening are done facing the aron kodesh, and it is improper, without a good reason, to stand with one’s back to it. However, Halacha made BK, at which the kohanim address the congregation, an exception (see Sota 40a). However, the kohanim turn to the congregation only when they need to, right before BK. The matter of timing of turning around and raising the hands is not intrinsic to BK, unlike the above matters. In fact, there is a machloket whether to turn around before the beracha (… asher kid’shanu … levarech …) or after it, and the present minhag is to turn in the middle of the beracha (see Aruch Hashulchan, OC 128:20). There is also a machloket whether to lift the hands before or after the beracha (see opinions in Va’ani Avarchem 19:2).

Given the fact that these questions of timing are just a matter of minhag, in your situation you can do what is physically best for you (you do not need to worry that other kohanim will resent your acting differently). Specifically, you can turn with everyone else, but holding your cane, and not raise your hands until you finish turning around and making the beracha. You can also turn, with the cane and at more leisure, before the beracha, and then put down the cane and raise your hands sometime before the BK itself.

In summary, you can appraise whether you can stand well enough at the critical times and figure out how to use legitimate corner cutters. You must make sure you are not endangering yourself concerning a dangerous fall. The wall may be a good solution, but something like a heavy shtender in front of you may be more effective and safer. Do not be embarrassed to ask for help to set things up best. Your lifetime of past and future berachot gives you rights!

לעילוי נשמת יואל אפרים בן אברהם עוזיאל זלצמן ז”ל

Interesting in C”M 267 we see that originally a middling identification mark was considered sufficient to return a lost object. However, when tricksters became more numerous, the court determined that it would require witnesses as well.

It makes me wonder what caused the increase in tricksters and how perceived permanent had the increase to be in order to have required such an enactment. What were the causes? Could the causes be cultural, economic, God-fearingness levels, or something else altogether. What was the trigger event or level that made the court determine that this was a permanent change that needed a permanent enactment? I don’t think anybody knows the answer but this is a subset of a more general question about courts and subjectivity and when to intervene in the system which had existed from har sinai.

The rama in o”c 149:1 says it’s a mitzvah to accompany the sefer torah back to the aron. What mitzvah is it? at the end of the sif it records a minhag to bring children in to kiss the torah. How old should they be and did they just bring them in for this (and not for davening?)

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Meyuchas Le-Rashi: Only Two Questions!

When we come to the famous Four Questions, only two aspects stir Meyuchas Le-Rashi’s interest. First, he wonders why we imply we do not eat other vegetables this night (we say we eat them on other nights), when we do.

His frames his answer with Mishlei 15;17, a minimal meal eaten in a loving context is better than one with the best foods surrounded by hatred. Pesach night, commemorating the bitter servitude of Egypt makes all the vegetables bitter [it’s all maror, regardless of what it actually is]. The rest of the year, even the maror we eat is not as bitter, freed from the context of Egypt.

[His idea explains two old problems. First, my father, a”h, was adamant we not say kulo maror, all maror, since we eat other vegetables, too. For Meyuchas Le-Rashi, it all tastes like maror. It also allows Romaine lettuce, despite our eating it throughout the year; on this night, it is bitter maror.]

He then rejects a textual version that had chayyavin le-tavel, we are obligated to dip (twice), because he read Pesachim 116a to tell us children do not pay attention to what’s obligatory or not.

One main question, one minor, all vegetables on Pesach night are bitter, and children aren’t legalists who investigate obligations.

Rashbatz—Explicating Five Questions

R. Shim’on b. Tzemach Duran deals withfivequestions, although he acknowledges the fourth, about roasted meat, applies only in the time of the Temple, and is not in most Haggadot today. He does point out that the question—on all other nights, we eat meat prepared in a variety of ways, this night only roasted– follows the view of Ben Tema, the chagigah sacrifice of Pesach night also had to be roasted.

He thinks the first question was two-sided, on no other night do we have bread related obligations, on this night we do. Conversely, no other night of the year has a problem with our eating leaven. A karet problem this night.

Second question, we must eat maror, regardless of how many other vegetables we eat, in contrast to the rest of the year, where we can set our diet as we wish.

Third (he calls each question a shinui, a change the child notices), on no other night do we have a specific practice to dip food into a liquid, where tonight we do it twice (we actually do it three times, he adds, in the korech as well as the maror; since the two are one right after the other, we count it as one).

Fifth (fourth was the roasted meat question), we wonder at the insistence on leaning, where the rest of the year we eat as we want (even walking, says Rashbatz).

Rashbatz points out the child asks about the dipping even though we haven’t dipped, because s/he sees the chazeret on the table; the charoset wouldn’t have stimulated a question, because people use dips throughout the year (and drink lots of wine, the reason not to ask about four cups). And, too, if there are no children, these questions will be asked by whoever, who might be wiser than the average child.

For Rashbatz, four to five questions, points to be made about each.

Aruch HaShulchan: The Four Cups

Aruch HaShulchan spends all his time for Mah Nishtanah on why the four cups aren’t mentioned. His first answer is simple, all people celebrate redemption with drinking, our drinking raises no questions.

His second answer seeks to combine perspectives from Yerushalmi Pesachim, that of R. Yochanan who attributed the four cups to the four words of redemption Hashem uses in the beginning of Shemot, Resh Lakish relating it to the four cups in Par’oh’s dreams.

Since the second seems unconnected to Pesach, Aruch HaShulchan digresses further, to our grudge against Amalek. It’s the baseless hatred, he says, starting with the attack in the desert to their having destroyed the Temple even once we were conquered (where most conquerors preserve a country, once vanquished).

Of all the tribes, only Yosef was fit to react to baseless hatred, since only he (and Binyamin, who wasn’t a factor in Egypt because he was too young, I think) had not had such hatred for Yosef. It’s why the Purim miracle happened through Mordechai and Esther, they were from the tribe of Binyamin.

Aruch HaShulchan turns to Pharaoh’s butler and baker, who are in jail, under threat of death, for what seem to him relatively minor crimes. Letting a fly into the wine, wood into the bread, these might be cause for dismissal, but prison? And death?

He argues the two were caught sabotaging each other, the butler put the wood in the bread, the baker the fly in the wine. It was the undermining, at the king’s cost, that got them in this trouble.

Whether the cups are for the four words of redemption or reflect Pharaoh’s dream, it’s all addressing baseless hatred, for Aruch HaShulchan, led by descendants of Rachel, the only ones who didn’t have any.

Who Earned the Redemption

His last piece wonders about a debate over whether there were four or five leshonot ge’ulah, whether we try to reflect the word ve-heveiti, and I will bring, in our cups of wine. I am skipping some of his proof, but he relates it to another debate, whether the Jews were redeemed in their own merits, or those of their forefathers.

In the end, he thinks everyone agrees basic redemption depended on the Patriarchs’ merits, our merits earned us having it happen directly from God, not an angel. We did not have enough to get to ve-heveiti, though, so that was through an angel.

For Aruch HaShulchan, the interesting part of Mah Nishtanah was what wasn’t there, sparking a meditation on redemption, who can lead it, and why.

How To Stimulate a Child

R. Kook, too, focuses on a side issue of the Questions, their order. Were they in the order wedothem, the question about leaning should come first (he also wondered why we don’t ask about the four Cups, but his answer to the first issue explains this one).

In his view, all these questions are for the child who does not know how to ask, seek to bring him/her to question on his/her own. The wise child doesn’t need our questions (nor the evil or tam, I think he means).

With the non-asking child, our goal isn’t the question or answer, it’s lighting the fire of his/her questions. For that reason, we start with the least surprising issues, hoping s/he will leap to the more surprising (and more obviously questionable) ones. Everyone had bread, sometimes matzah, sometimes leavened, so sticking to matzah isn’t so shocking.

For maror, he is sure people did not eat it during the rest of the year. The dipping, in his view, focused on the first one, since people didn’t generally dip before a meal.

Four Questions, an adventure in producing questions, for R. Kook.

The Mah Nishtanah, in our earlier commentators, were to consider and explain. For our later commentators, there were other fish to fry, redemption for Aruch HaShulchan, education for R. Kook.

Continuation of an elul series started last elul on r ybs’s thoughts on tshuva

Rabbi Dovid Gottlieb-Rav Soloveitchik on Teshuva

https://www.yutorah.org/lectures//lecture.cfm/1145526

(7): Appreciating the Different Motivations for

The Rambam uses the language of charata and kabala twice in hilchot tshuva (but reverses the order). R ybs drew a parallel between tshuva and nedarim (which can be undone through petach or charata). Think about these categories as intellect vs emotion. 

Sin creates a spiritual illness with the symptoms of yissurim.

https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/1145717

(8): Mourning Our Lost Selves and the Emotions of Repentance

The symptoms of sin are related to the pain of mourning (of our memory of the event) as the sinner has lost his purity. The disgust with himself drives a natural, emotion of powerful regret (charata).

https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/1146471

(9): Deciding to Repent Even When the Temptation of Sin Remains

One model of tshuva is feeling revulsion concerning the earlier act, another is not feeling revulsion (you’d like to do it again) but realizing the downside (eg the rambam’s description of tshuva gemura as being in the same situation but resisting the same temptation).

https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/1146612

(10): The Secret Power that Makes Teshuva Possible

The rambam’s description of HKBH “testifying” to tshuva gemura is about bringing HKBH inside ourselves/our psyche.

https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/1148129

(11): Appreciating Our Dual Relationship With Hashem

Brit sinai and brit avot represent the natural and personal brit/relationship with HKBH. Tshuva renews our brit (similar to geirut).

https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/1149655

(12): How To Free Ourselves from Our Fears

One of my favorites – vchen ten pachdcha means our fear of (and absolute loyalty to) HKBH drives out of the fear of any other person/thing. Kol nidrei has the same message – our commitments to HKBH outweigh any other commitment.